Experiencing ghosting in online dating can be a frustrating feeling. Ghosting occurs when someone abruptly stops communicating with you without any explanation or closure. It’s important to remember that sometimes life gets busy and online dating may not be a top priority.
If you find yourself being ghosted, it’s common to start questioning what went wrong and if you could have done anything differently. However, it’s crucial not to take it personally and not to dwell on it too much. You can try reaching out one last time with a polite message like, “Hey! I enjoyed our conversations. Are you still interested in connecting?” If they respond, great. If not, it’s time to move on.
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If you’re the one doing the ghosting, it’s important to avoid this behavior. Sending a clear and polite message like, “I enjoyed our conversations, but I don’t see a match. Wish you the best!” can help provide closure. If the other person becomes aggressive or demands explanations, it’s okay to block them.
Accidentally ghosting someone can also happen, especially during busy times. It’s advisable to apologize for the lapse in communication and see if the conversation can be resumed. Setting aside time for online dating in your schedule or setting reminders can help avoid unintentional ghosting.
Remember, silence in online dating can lead to confusion and negative assumptions. Whether you’re experiencing ghosting or considering ghosting someone, it’s essential to communicate openly and respectfully in these situations.
Erika Ettin, the founder of a Little Nudge, assists individuals in navigating the world of online dating. To connect with Erika, join her newsletter for updates and tips.
