When using dating apps or websites, you quickly realize that there is a unique language to learn. Along with terms like “ghosting” and “cuffing season,” there are also acronyms used by singles to convey what they are looking for in a partner.
At first, these acronyms may seem beneficial. They efficiently communicate desires, such as a FWB or an ENM relationship, in a concise manner. However, this shorthand can potentially deter potential matches.
According to the BBC, daters find acronyms in profiles off-putting and confusing. The use of these abbreviations can complicate the already challenging process of online dating.
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Some people find acronyms helpful for filtering out potential matches based on interests, while others see them as a barrier to connection. Using these acronyms can send a signal to a specific niche of individuals.
When it comes to online dating, it’s already challenging without the added complexity of deciphering unknown abbreviations. To avoid any misinterpretations, it’s best to stick to plain English in your profile.
Although acronyms are not recommended for your profile, here are a few common dating abbreviations:
DTR: Define the relationship
LDR: Long-distance relationship
LTR: Long-term relationship
GGG: Good, giving and game (term coined by Dan Savage meaning you’re a quality, selfless and willing sexual partner)
FWB: Friend with benefits
NMNK: Never married, no kids
DINK: Dual income, no kids
Review your profile from the perspective of a potential match. Is it easily understood? If not, it may be time to reconsider the language you’re using in your online dating profile.
Erika Ettin is the founder of A Little Nudge, where she helps others navigate the world of online dating. Connect with Erika through her newsletter, eepurl.com/dpHcH, for tips and updates.
